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Wicked and Virtuous Women[a]

13 Any wound, but not a wound of the heart!
    Any wickedness, but not the wickedness of a woman!
14 Any suffering, but not suffering from one’s foes!
    Any vengeance, but not the vengeance of one’s enemies!
15 There is no poison worse than that of a serpent,
    no venom greater than that of a woman.
16 I would rather live with a dragon or a lion
    than live with a wicked woman.(A)
17 A woman’s wicked disposition changes her appearance,
    and makes her face as dark as a bear.
18 When her husband sits among his neighbors,
    a bitter sigh escapes him unawares.

19 There is hardly an evil like that in a woman;
    may she fall to the lot of the sinner!
20 Like a sandy hill to aged feet
    is a garrulous wife to a quiet husband.
21 Do not be enticed by a woman’s beauty,
    or be greedy for her wealth.
22 Harsh is the slavery and great the shame
    when a wife supports her husband.

23 Depressed mind, gloomy face,
    and a wounded heart—a wicked woman.
Drooping hands and quaking knees,
    any wife who does not make her husband happy.
24 With a woman sin had a beginning,
    and because of her we all die.[b]
25 Allow water no outlet,
    and no boldness of speech to a wicked woman.
26 If she does not go along as you direct,
    cut her away from you.

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Footnotes

  1. 25:13–26 The harsh statements Ben Sira makes about women reflect the kind of instruction young Jewish males were exposed to in the early second century B.C. His patriarchal perspective is as unfair as it is one-sided.
  2. 25:24 Ben Sira refers to the story of the first sin in Gn 3:1–6. Cf. 2 Cor 11:3 and 1 Tm 2:14. St. Paul, however, singles out Adam; cf. Rom 5:12–19; 1 Cor 15:22.