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Grief, Grieve

GRIEF, GRIEVE (חָלָה֒, H2703, to be pained, concerned; חֳלִי, H2716, anxiety; עָצַב֮, H6772, to be afflicted inwardly; λυπέω, G3382, grief). The KJV and the RSV also tr. eight more words as grief. Beyond this agreement, the KJV trs. twenty-seven additional Heb. words and seven other Gr. words as grief that the RSV often treats differently. In all, the KJV has 122 “grief verses” whereas the RSV has but 66. The suggested difficulty in determining what grief means and whether or not a situation entails grief is further indicated in the fact that the two VSS overlap in only twenty-two places.

In modern usage grief is mental distress associated with death or other keenly felt loss, whereas the older Eng. usage included a wide range of meanings such as physical or psychological pain, disease, injury, anxiety, and any displeasure or hardship. The difference is vivid in the following passages where the KJV uniformly uses the words grief or grieve, but the RSV substitutes as follows: “made life bitter” (Gen 26:35); “indignant” (34:7); “in dread” (Exod 1:12); “exceedingly bitter” (Ruth 1:13); “vexation” (1 Sam 1:16); “bitter in soul” (30:6); “displeased” (Neh 2:10); “very angry” (13:8); “offended” (Job 4:2); “embittered” (Ps 73:21); “loathed” (95:10); “disgust” (119:158); “vexation” (Eccl 1:18). From this frequent use of words that indicate subjective feeling, it is evident that the RSV prefers to think of grief (except when equated with mourning) as inner feeling. On the other hand, the KJV, in a less rigorous fashion, allows grief to refer to both internal dispositions and external conditions indiscriminately.

Changes in the Eng. language, a wider selection of attitudinal categories resulting from rationalistic and dualistic thought, and improved knowledge of the ancient languages account for the sharp variations in the two VSS. But this leaves unsettled a prior question concerning the meaning of grief for the Heb. mind or the NT writer. Undoubtedly, the Biblical writers had experiences similar to those indicated in the RSV and accordingly used a wide variety of words. The prevailing Heb. frame of reference however, would not have led them to use language primarily as a vehicle for categorizing and labeling mental dispositions. Unoriented to 18th and 19th cent. perspectives, as the RSV, the outlook of the KJV tends to reflect more accurately the Heb. notion of grief.

An article in TDNT enhances the discussion. It suggests that the Biblical writers considered the emotions and attitudes only indirectly, and naturally focused attention on the external circumstances in human experience. The cause of the grief was the true grief. Envisaging a world fallen in all detail and under the judgment of God (Gen 3:16f), their perspective went beyond analysis of personal feeling. Grief was related to the groaning in travail of the whole creation as Paul expressed it (Rom 8:22), which reflects a prevailing OT sentiment. Grief, however, was not simply punishment or a final state for man; by including the idea of suffering, it was related to the Messiah (Isa 53:4) who was to be the hope of redemption from the guilt indicated by the universal fact of grief (cf. Isa 35:10; 1 Pet 1:3-7).

Contrary to the prevailing Gr. practice of contrasting grief with pleasure, the NT made grief and grace complementary (John 16:20f.; Heb 12:11). Paul contrasted a “godly grief” that leads through repentance to salvation with a “worldly grief” that produces death (2 Cor 7:10). A spiritual notion of grief that includes various kinds of suffering (2 Cor 4:8-10; 11:23ff.; 12:10) also explains how the Christian is not necessarily hampered by the present course of suffering in life, but may by God’s help transcend and transvaluate grief. In verses such as John 16:20; Romans 6:6; 2 Corinthians 4:8; Galatians 6:14; Philippians 1:29; 3:10; James 1:2; and 1 Peter 2:19, this pattern of grief in complementary relationship with grace can be discerned. See [http://biblegateway/wiki/Suffering and Anguish SUFFERING].

Bibliography Trench (1880), 237-239; W. L. Walker, “Grief,” ISBE (1929), 1305, 1306; R. Bultmann, “λυπή, λυπέω,” TDNT, IV (1942), 313-324; R. Bridges, L. A. Weigle, The Bible Word Book (1960), 157, 158.